Thursday, September 23, 2010

Wife,Mother,Student,what else...

So lately I have realized that my role as a wife/mother/employee has just spiraled out of control..I mean really!...We as woman have several different hats to wear and I did not really realize it until last night as I sat with a nice refreshing glass and chatted it up with a close friend..We as woman tend to always put ourselves on back burner and if we are not careful we will totally and completely forget about ourselves. I don't know if this applies to all woman, but I know for myself this is a very present situation I am in. I must truly make sure my heart is in the right place and that I don't get any bitterness towards my husband or my son. That is not at all healthy..The most recent decision I have made was to go back to school and as easy as I thought it would be with one child (an active one at that), a full time job,full time school and my hubs being a full time engineering student it was not. So guess who has to put her degree on back burner again...you guessed it..I love my husband and I know that it will be more beneficial to let him finish his degree first b/c he will then be able to support the fam while I go back to school. I think as much as we say that things have changed I must say I really don't think so. I still believe that we sacrifice way more than our men and our children, but we love them and we do things like that for the people we love.

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