Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Braids out Big Hair again!! Deep Conditioning..

So yesterday I decided to take out my braids that had been in for all of 5 weeks..I really missed my hair! Not to mention my hubs loves when I wear my natural styles..I tried a new shampoo from catwalk along with my normal design elements. It was an oatmeal and honey blend and I LOVED how as I shampooed and washed my curls were sooo defined..Having the braids in did help a WHOLE lot with my transition..I have like one piece of hair that is just refusing to curl..Don't be surprised if I just cut it one day..So anyway while over at Curly Nikki I saw this recipe for a honey and olive oil conditioner..Yesterday I tried it..I did not sit in the tub but I did wrap my hair in a warm moist towel for what seemed like forever..After I co washed my hair some more with my Moroccan Oil conditioner..Left me with very soft moisturized hair..I used a curly smoothie as well before I set my hair and OMG I am in love..I mean even while my hair was drying it was soo soft and I could very much see a difference.I will be taking my twist out today and I will post a pic I am hoping for good results as I had to use my Garner Curly styling cream yesterday because I was out of my Silky Milk.:(..I probably won't do too much to my hair since I will be going to my annual stylist appt this week.

In other news my little man started swimming and I could not be more proud, my big man started school and that makes me smile..and yet of course I have decided through great friends and advising to continue as well..I can't keep giving up and so I will not. The hubs and I are celebrating 2 wonderful years of marriage this week and my favorite niece turns 1..I can not believe she is already 1 it seems like we were just at the hospital..I will be sure to post picks of this weekends events..We also have a wedding to go to so this weekend should be a douse for us!! Well I think I will get to working soo I will chat with you all later..

As always
Keep it Sexi!!
Mrs. Davis

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Wife,Mother,Student,what else...

So lately I have realized that my role as a wife/mother/employee has just spiraled out of control..I mean really!...We as woman have several different hats to wear and I did not really realize it until last night as I sat with a nice refreshing glass and chatted it up with a close friend..We as woman tend to always put ourselves on back burner and if we are not careful we will totally and completely forget about ourselves. I don't know if this applies to all woman, but I know for myself this is a very present situation I am in. I must truly make sure my heart is in the right place and that I don't get any bitterness towards my husband or my son. That is not at all healthy..The most recent decision I have made was to go back to school and as easy as I thought it would be with one child (an active one at that), a full time job,full time school and my hubs being a full time engineering student it was not. So guess who has to put her degree on back burner again...you guessed it..I love my husband and I know that it will be more beneficial to let him finish his degree first b/c he will then be able to support the fam while I go back to school. I think as much as we say that things have changed I must say I really don't think so. I still believe that we sacrifice way more than our men and our children, but we love them and we do things like that for the people we love.